What You Tolerate; You Allow
One of my oldest friends and I got together for some afternoon margaritas (thank you dream career) and we were talking about #WORTH.
And I was telling her how, in my latest relationship, the entire course of the relationship I thought that my partner was “building” my worth. However, it wasn’t until the end that I realized he just RECONFIRMED my worth instead.
He didn’t “build” it because there’s nothing to build…you’re born worthy and hopefully one day you’ll realize that fully yourself. By treating me as he did on a daily basis he certainly taught me something I already knew about myself but had just forgotten over the years.
So date/spend your time with humans who VALUE you for YOU; because at least they’ll always treat you as the worthy soul you are.
People either value you or not, and it isn’t based on who you are. It’s based on their perceptions built by themselves throughout their entire life and the experiences that they have had. So do yourself a favor and set a standard for HOW people should treat you and follow-through, no matter the difficulty; remember your worth.
After all, what you tolerate is what you allow. Do you want a guy who will treat you like you’re the woman of his dreams? Don’t tolerate guys that treat you less. You don’t believe you can get that? WHY? Work through your fears/lack of worth/etc., LET your experiences teach you the lessons you came here to learn and hold a new standard. This is your daily reminder that you’re worthy- but you have to work on this yourself too!
Be really picky about who you let into your world because they’ll affect it. Always remind yourself that you’re worthy AF and do not tolerate any less than your highest/best self would.
You are literally the f*cking best, don’t settle for anyone that makes you feel less.
