Awareness of a woman’s sexuality comes later in the game than men. Mostly because it isn’t as easy for us females as it is for men when it comes to orgasms. I didn’t really get comfortable with this stuff until my mid-20’s. Women should prioritize getting to know themselves and what they like, it helps you as well as your partner. In the beginning, it’s like a scary door that you don’t really want to step into because you literally have NO idea what to find and it seems so much more comfortable to stay where we are. But we all deserve pleasure. But before gaining pleasure like that, one must know themselves. Confidence comes into play here also. But ladies- please stop spending time with partners who don’t care about giving you as much pleasure as you are giving them- you deserve SO much more than that.